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Honesta Willis Dobyns

July 22, 1926 – January 25, 2020. Honesta Autry Willis Dobyns died peacefully at home in the early morning of January 25, 2020. She was born near Autryville, NC on July 22, 1926 while her mother was visiting the family home in Sampson County. She grew up in Jacksonville, Florida with her loving parents, James Allen and Honesta Autry Willis. She was the middle child, between older brother James Allen Willis, Jr. and younger brother Robert Oliver Willis, both of whom preceded her in death. The three of them had a happy childhood, spending summers in Sampson County, North Carolina and attending school in Florida. In 1944, she began attending the College of William and Mary in Williamsburg, Virginia, where she met her lifelong love and husband of 65 years, James Anderson Dobyns, Jr. She was an active Kappa Delta sorority sister, and graduated with a BA in History with the class of 1948. After Honesta taught school in Jacksonville for a year, she and Jimmy were married in July of 1949. They enjoyed many happy years together until his death in 2014. Honesta and Jimmy began their life together in Richmond, Virginia, where he worked as a chemist and she in the insurance business. They had their first child in 1953, and she began her lifelong career creating a happy home with Jimmy and their two children. Her firstborn was a son, James (Bo), in 1953, and then she had a daughter, Janis, in 1959. In 1961, the young family moved to Greensboro, NC where Jimmy had a long career with Mother Murphy’s Laboratories. Honesta’s extensive knowledge of history was put to use during her years as a homemaker through her active participation in volunteer activities. She dedicated time to The Greensboro Preservation Society and was passionate about restoration of the Blandwood Mansion, serving as president of the Blandwood Guild. She was also an active member in West Market United Methodist Church, and the United Methodist Women. For decades, Honesta and Jimmy never missed taking a spring vacation to enjoy the Virginia Garden Club’s Historic Garden Tour. After retirement, she and Jimmy purchased a historic home in Rockingham County from Preservation North Carolina, rescuing it from falling into ruins. Their son took the lead in restoring the home, and in the mid-90’s she and Jimmy moved into their dream retirement home, where they spent many happy years. They volunteered time with the Rockingham County Historical Society, she serving a term as President. She enjoyed researching and writing about the history of the home they loved. They attended Wentworth Methodist Church. Honesta was always interested in current events, enjoyed traveling, and remained a curious and lifelong learner until her last days. She avidly followed the news, and applied her historical perspective to many interests, including reading, writing and needlework. She also loved cooking, good restaurants, the NC mountains, and the cabin she and Jimmy built near the New River. She enjoyed her yard, and there wasn’t a flower she didn’t love. She had a strong interest in genealogy, and researched and documented a large amount of family history. Honesta is survived by her son, James Anderson Dobyns, III (Bibba), daughter Janis Dobyns McHargue (Brad), sister-in-law Evelyn Willis, niece Lynn Lacey (Chip), and nephew Bobby Willis (Kathy). A private memorial service will be held later. The family suggests that, if they wish to memorialize Honesta’s life, friends can make a charitable donation to the charity of their choice, or to one that Honesta supported: Preservation NC, Northumberland County (Va) Historical Society, Colonial Williamsburg, Museum and Archives of Rockingham County, or Hospice of Rockingham County. Condolences may be sent to the family at www.wilkersonfuneral.com.


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The Dobynses hosted our engagement party in their restored home "The Hermitage" several years ago and for that treasured memory and many other kindnesses extended to us we will always be grateful. They made a most charming couple and were the best kind of friends. We rejoice that they are both now in the more immediate presence of our Lord and Savior. Our deepest sympathies to their family who is left a wonderful legacy of love and service.

Michael and Teresa Perdue Feb 3 2020 9:42 AM

Michael and Teresa Perdue lit a candle for Honesta Willis Dobyns

Michael and Teresa Perdue Feb 3 2020 9:31 AM

Your parents were always such an example of a great marriage and your Mother was such a lovely person. We have missed them since they left Greensboro. I have lots of good memories of them both. So sorry for your loss! Sincerely, Janet Murphy

Janet Murphy Feb 3 2020 9:11 AM

Mary Jo M Boswell lit a candle for Honesta Willis Dobyns

Mary Jo M Boswell Feb 2 2020 12:46 PM

My first and most lasting memories of Honesta will be of her in costume, warming cider on the Governor's new-fangled stove while regaling Blandwood visitors with her knowledge of life in the 19th Century. She - and Jimmy - were stalwart members of the Blandwood Guild for so many years - even after moving to the house of their retirement dreams - which they shared with the Guild for lovely luncheons out on the lawn. The Children's Room at the mansion never looked so inviting as when Honesta set up her string game and displayed the fantastic toys she had collected. My deepest sympathies to you Bo, Bibba, Janis and your families on the passing of such a lovely caring lady. Alison Blake MacCord

Alison Blake MacCord Feb 2 2020 8:45 AM

My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. May you find comfort and peace in the love and memories you hold dear. Michele

Michele Jan 29 2020 9:14 AM

My deepest condolence to your family, and may God continue to bless and strengthen you in the coming days. "Hold tight to memories for comfort" Stevie

Stevie Dulin Jan 28 2020 3:29 PM